Why A Website? Seems weird. Are you weird?
I’ve believe you find the best job when you tell people you’re looking. Right now, I don’t know a lot of wonderful available people, so I’m trying something different.
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I became single earlier this year and instead of relying on algorithms or chance encounters, I’m putting myself out there in a way that’s intentional, thoughtful, and (hopefully) effective.
This isn’t about broadcasting my love life to the world. I keep things private, and this weird website is as public as it gets for me.
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If what you’ve read so far resonates with you, or if you know someone who might be a great match, I’d love to hear from you. Let’s see where this goes.
OK, but SPECIFICALLY, what are you after?
Look, I'm pretty open minded. Your gender isn't material. I reckon you'll be 35-50. I don't mind if you have kids, I'll be more curious as to how you parent/co-parent. You'll have friends you readily share your feelings with. You'll probably be well educated, well travelled and have a great career, but you might not be - the world works in mysterious ways. You're probably not obsessive about something - a sport type or sporting team, a religion, an author, a board game etc, that's generally not my vibe. You'll be kind, curious, handy, and a doer of things.
Can I have a few more facts about you?
Certainly. I'm 41, proudly an elder millennial - quite young at heart. I'm bisexual. I have a few degrees, a solid career, a home, a 10 year old angry dingo, a small extended family, a big community, and an ex husband. I don't have kids (and I won't be having kids with you) it's not that I don't like them, they're just a lot hard work and I thought I'd like an easier life with more economic and emotional resources quarantined for me. I grew up in the Pilbara but I'm a parochial Vic Park local - will move for the right reasons, not anytime soon.
Tell me more about the farm, sounds fun.
The farm started in 2019. It isn't my whole personality (you'll be happy to know) but there's chickens, free range ducks, two bee hives (Kenyan and top bar), ~20 types of fruit, and ~30m2 of garden bed (which will soon be full of flowers and green manure to rejuvenate over winter). It's not picture perfect - it's ever evolving and a fun little project.
There's lots about adventure. What am I getting myself in for?
Don't be concerned, I just like to do stuff and try new things. I'm a fan of culture and the arts - I get out to shows, gigs and exhibitions; I enjoy hiking and camping in WA and around the world; I've been to 35 countries (I looked that up today, I'm not counting); I've completed a few half marathons and a half ironman (all slowly - I'm fitness friendly not fitness obsessed); I did pottery classes last year; I paddled to Rotto in February; I'm learning piano; I'm a Dockers AFLW supporter; I dabble in Indonesian; I'm abreast of current affairs... It's not one flavour of adventure.
OK, but what are you REALLY like?
At this point, honestly, just get in touch and let's chat. But - if you must - here's some things that might help/make you think they help. I'm opinionated and I'm not shy - but I've got a solid EQ and I know how to to be delightful and engaging, not a pain in the ass. I'm a: Virgo; Gregarious Introvert; HBDI Yellow/Blue; PRINT 7 Major 9 Minor; Enneagram 7; Myers-Briggs E/I,N,T,P/J; Peacock/Eagle; my circumplex is super blue with a competitive approval seeking bow tie (if any of that really excites you, I'm probably not your girl). I'm the kind of girl who put a website together to get a date.